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“I know that I need help, but I don’t know what to delegate.” I hear this phrase often in my conversations with leaders. They’re feeling the pressure of having too much on their plate and know they need support, but they don’t know where to start. They’re already overwhelmed, and the thought of figuring out how support should work for them adds another layer.
I speak with leaders all the time who are overwhelmed in their businesses and finally do what they believe is the right thing by hiring a virtual executive assistant. They’ve heard over and over again that they need to take themselves out of the day-to-day administrative work so they can focus on other areas of their business and create more freedom. However, bringing on an executive assistant doesn’t always bring about those changes.
Have you ever thought to yourself, “I just need to be more productive?”
This is often the thought that surfaces when you feel the weight of having more on your plate than you can handle. You may have tried learning a new application that promises to improve your workflow, time blocking to get more done, or taking a course on productivity. You may have even started listening to podcasts about becoming more efficient.
But productivity can’t replace the proactive support of an executive assistant.
As a business owner, the buck usually starts and ends with you. There’s a lot that happens in your business each day. Naturally, it can become a habit to have a hand in everything.
You start your day in your email inbox and end it there, without completing a single task you planned. Your calendar is full because you’ve overbooked yourself. You’re putting out fires with team members. And the list goes on.
At some point, you realize the issue isn’t doing more. It’s releasing more from your plate. As I shared in The Hidden Cost of Waiting, staying in the center of everything for too long quietly slows growth.
So what changes when you’re no longer the bottleneck?
You’ve done the right thing—or what you thought was the right thing—and hired an executive assistant. Your intention in hiring an EA was to create more time and support the growth of your business. Yet nothing has changed. You’re still feeling overwhelmed and don’t have the capacity you expected.
Enter underutilization, a common issue among leaders who hire executive assistants.
Underutilization can be difficult to recognize because it’s largely invisible. Your EA is present, responsive, and doing the work assigned, even if they’re remote. From the outside, everything appears to be working. But underutilization of an executive assistant is not an assistant performance issue; it’s a leadership issue.
One of the most expensive decisions leaders make isn’t investing in support; it’s waiting.
On the surface, waiting can feel responsible. You see the cost of administrative support clearly, and you hesitate. You tell yourself you’ll revisit the decision once there’s more margin, more clarity, or more time. But while the financial cost is visible, the real cost of waiting often goes unnoticed, and that cost compounds quietly.
Scaling a business isn’t about effort; it’s about business growth capacity. If you’re a leader who wants to scale your business but nothing seems to be working in your favor, it may be time to make a change.
Operating a business can be overwhelming. There are countless things that need to happen every day to keep things moving smoothly. Because of this, it’s tempting to have your hand in everything, but doing so isn’t working to your benefit. In fact, it often limits your ability to grow. There are a few important shifts that can help you move toward scaling a successful company without burning out.
There’s a moment in every growing business when things start to feel heavier than they should. Not because the work is hard, but because everything depends on you — decisions, answers, fixes, and context.
Over the years, I’ve seen one pattern show up again and again in businesses that feel stuck or strained: the work lives in people’s heads instead of in the business. That’s where documentation quietly becomes a leadership issue, not just an operational one.
Delegation is one of the most powerful accelerators of business growth. It frees up capacity, reduces overwhelm, and allows leaders to operate at a higher level.
But here’s the truth many people don’t talk about: delegation fails far more often than it succeeds — and it’s usually not because the assistant wasn’t capable.
More often than not, delegation fails because the leader wasn’t set up for it to work.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness — the kind that gives leaders the clarity and readiness to delegate well. Before work is handed off, there are a few foundational elements that need to be in place.
There comes a time when effort isn’t enough, and at some point, we’re just spinning our wheels. If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone. As a business owner, your workload can sneak up on you. Before you know it, you’re working yourself into burnout.
However, the turning point comes when you stop long enough to recognize what’s happening. Keep in mind — this isn’t a bad thing. It’s actually a sign of growth in your business.